The One Question That Could Change Your Life Forever

Many at times, we find ourselves doubting on many things happening to us or even to others. It could be issues to do with your career, your job, your boss, your spouse, relationships, money e.t.c.  We constantly ask our ourselves questions that make us doubt our ability to improve. For example; at one point in life, you might have asked yourself questions such as: “Am I doing the right thing? “Can I pull off quitting my job and starting my own project?” “Should I be doing more?” “Do I deserve this?”

But what happens even with all these questions crossing your mind? Many of us are afraid of change.  Most of us just complain about not being satisfied to others and in most cases these are
people who will do nothing about your problem. For example if your boss is paying you less, most employees will choose to share this with colleagues or spouses but will never get to ask for a pay rise
Another thing is that most people never have is the gut to put the brakes on when it isn't worth pursuing. For instance, in relationships, you may find a girl who will stick with the wrong guy for the wrong reasons hoping that the guy will change. Others will stay in a job that doesn’t pay well just because there is pay at the end of the month and you are assured of meeting your bills.

Though it is human nature to try as hard as possible to stay within the status quo, instead of just watching such things, you need to start telling yourself that you deserves better and turn away! Do not be wired to seek the status quo, even if our minds do an efficient job of holding us back even when we strive for something new.

But many people have suffered from this kind of self-doubt. They are afraid that they can’t create a better situation for themselves, when they believe this is as good as it’s going to get for them, when they can’t fathom of anything better coming our way.

At some point, we’ve all been guilty of accepting less than we deserve. Self doubt and fear of change can keep us locked inside our current situations, even if they’re not good for us.

Ask yourself a new question — a better question that makes you become ‘helpful’ instead of ‘hurtful’. There is power in questioning and asking yourself a thought-provoking question can change your life more than any simple answer can.

The question is: Do I deserve better? If you asked yourself what you deserve out of your life — in your career, your relationships, your health, your everything — does it match up with your current situation?

Asking yourself what you deserve gives you a clearer road map of where you want to go — your destination. Once you can see your destination, it’s much easier to identify what you need to do get there — your path.

We all deserve the best, no exception. But being afraid that you might lose what you already have, even if it’s below your expectation will deter you from changing your life. Courage and harmony are the two things we miss the most, when we will find them, it will be much easier to say: “Yes, I deserve better, and I want full freedom and happiness no matter how much they will cost. You need to lose old to get new.